Personal Power – Do you find that you give away your power to others? Does it slip away gradually and unnoticed, or have you handed over your power to another out of fear, in the name of love, or simply resolve an uncomfortable situation quickly?

In this post, we’ll explore personal power and ways you can maintain and enhance yours.

What Is Personal Power?

Personal power is a term we use to label a bundle of characteristics we possess that, together, allows us to get our way, accomplish our goals, make progress, and gain and maintain our values. That bundle of characteristics is made up of energy, boundaries, courage, conviction, desire, and self-love, to name a few.

Exercising your power is important for several reasons. The most important one is so that you can focus on your purpose and stay steadily on your path.

 Do you sometimes feel as if your power is slipping away from you? You are not alone. Most of us have experienced this in some way or another.

Sometimes, it’s given away with a positive intention, for instance, when trying to keep peace in the workplace or keep everyone happy at home. We give our power away when we try to appease or please, when we are too concerned about the opinions of others, or when we put everyone else’s happiness ahead of our own goals.

Sometimes, our power is snatched away from us in an intimidating way, such as by persecution, war, bullying, abuse, and the like. 

For example, it may show up in our lives when we

  • set aside our goals and desires to follow someone else on their path or because we fear criticism
  • don’t make time for ourselves but are doing way too much for others
  • feel we can’t speak our minds or give our opinion
  • care more about getting approval from others than following our judgments and goals
  • feel invisible, unheard, unappreciated
  • act out of fear of retaliation or loss rather than from choices made to support our values
  • Are in the habit of turning over decisions and choices to someone else.

Personal Power  

Diminished personal power may have its roots in experiences from this life or may have been carried over from a past life. Giving away your power initially could stem from the need for survival, to win or keep someone’s love, or as a way to fit into society. Over time, the result is pent-up anger, resentment, frustration, diminished self-esteem, and a block to achieving your passions or your purpose.

Some people conceive of personal power as pushing other people around or demanding others do their bidding. That is force, not the same as personal power. Personal power means you control your life and your destiny, not control or restrict others.

Healthily wielding your power means having a presence, manifesting your goals, maintaining boundaries, standing up for yourself, affecting the change you wish to see in the world, and having the energy to create a life filled with achievement, joy, and well-being.

Steps to Regaining Your Power

Regaining your lost or diminished personal power is a process. It begins with understanding your internal perspectives and weaknesses that have contributed to this pattern of giving it away or losing it. We will explore past events when this has occurred, whether in this life or past lives, to identify the common trait that has allowed it. Every individual will have a unique set of circumstances and thought patterns that have contributed to this condition.

Once discovered, we can begin to make corrections, first in the thought processes and then in correcting behaviors and responses.

The needed corrections will become obvious within the session. Then, they are anchored and set into motion, and all that is left is to test them in everyday life. It may take getting familiar with a new way of being in the world, a way that is empowered, with courage and conviction, boundaries, and self-worth. Then, it will feel natural to live with the new pattern of personal power.

One of the most valuable parts of the strategy of building and maintaining personal power is to gather and fully integrate the memories of as many lifetimes as possible. This means that you not only know about those other lifetimes or have a sense of who you have been but to fully and seamlessly be one with those other incarnations. Rather than seeing your lifetimes as separate personalities and adventures, you see yourself as the focal point and embodiment of all your lifetimes. In this way, you gather all the energy, wisdom, lessons learned, skills, knowledge, and perspectives of relationships into your present consciousness. It creates a strong energy field and a solid sense of self.

Personal Power

As you regain your power, you:

  • make your decisions based on how they will affect you in all of your aspects (lifetimes)
  • access the memories, wisdom, and knowledge that you have acquired, even in those faraway times
  • Can recognize people you knew in other lifetimes, remember your relationships with them, and see their lives as one long continuum as well.
  • Are energetically linked to all your aspects to make one larger, more powerful Being in yourself today.

When this has occurred, you are less likely to be pushed around by the prevailing winds and less likely to lose or give away your power. You will be more grounded, self-assured, wise, and empowered to create the life you truly imagine for yourself.

Ending Thoughts 

There are many ways that personal power is given or taken away. When this occurs, there is a loss of autonomy and self-direction. This leads to anger, frustration, resentment, and the inability to maintain your true life path.

If you find that you have given away some or all of your power, or if you feel that you are feeling the results of past traumas that have diminished your full empowerment, it is never too late to recover that energy and state of Being. 

 If you have any questions or comments, please share them below! 

 

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